➕ Adds pronouns (#121)

* [WIP] drafts for pronouns

* Fixes duplicate header

11ty/definitions/preferred-pronoun.md

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+---
+title: preferred pronoun
+slug: preferred-pronoun
+flag:
+  text: 'avoid'
+  level: avoid
+defined: true
+speech: noun
+alt_words:
+  - pronoun
+---
+
+a word that substitutes for a noun, in particular, a person's name; a person's pronouns does not necessarily align with their gender presentation or their gender identity; a person gets to say what pronouns they and others use to refer to them; pronouns can be fluid based on context and presentation and change over time.
+
+## Issues
+Preferred pronoun can imply that this is merely what is _preferred_ rather than what is _real_. Using this can reinforce the idea that someone's pronouns are a choice rather than what is true for them or it's merely a preference and that you can use whatever pronouns you'd like for them.
+
+## Impact
+Preferred pronouns can delegitimise pronouns of trans and non-binary people in particular, especially when their pronouns are wrongly assumed to be different than they are or [neopronouns](definitions/neopronouns) that are less commonly known. Delegitimising their pronouns delegitimes aspects of their identity, reinforces transmisia and non-binary erasure, and leads to harm against them.
+
+## Usage Tip
+
+Use [pronouns](definitions/pronouns) instead.